"Mum, I'm talking to you now, and there's a corpse in front of me", says Valeriia, a resident of Mariupol. ‘I wrote notes with my details. Blood type, phone numbers of my mother and husband.

"Tell my husband and mum that I love them very much." I wrote the same note for my daughter Lera. Many wrote phrases: "If something happens to me". They were afraid to write: "If I am killed".